Prompt: Write about the value of restraint.
All right, the prompt for today, July 13, 2026, is: Write about the value of restraint.
I think restraint is almost as important as exploration. What you should do—or could do, I suppose—is explore all of your options. Explore everything that’s available to you, and then decide on a path. That’s where the restraint comes in: choosing to do one thing at the expense of others.
I say this knowing full well how poorly I enact it. For better or worse, I’ll pursue almost all of my ideas. It takes its toll. It’s expensive, it’s distracting, and it means I never really develop mastery in one specific area. I spend a lot of time moving between different interests, doing different things, and I haven’t really focused on one particular craft, approach, or philosophy long enough to let it settle and become something powerful in my life.
So I think there is real value in restraint.
Woodworking is a good example, but it’s everything around woodworking too. I never specialized or chose one direction, whether that was pen making, lathe work, box making, or hand-tool woodworking. Every time I felt like trying something new, I did. I bought the tools and went down another path. Looking back, I think I would have done better to choose something and stick with it—to really try to squeeze all of the creativity out of that path before moving on.
What I do now is I don’t always become more creative with the ideas I already have because I simply move on to the next thing that seems easier.
I don’t know if I have a perfect example of that. I guess tools are one. If something isn’t working for me and I’m finding it too difficult, I go and buy another tool to make it easier. And that’s not always the best solution.
I think there’s a lot to be said for self-restraint.
I also think that’s true in life, not just in woodworking. It’s in those moments when we choose to hold back our emotions or the words we want to say. When we choose to stop and reflect for a moment instead of reacting. That’s exercising self-control, and maybe even self-efficacy.
Sometimes that takes a lot of creativity because you have to create a justification in your own mind for why you’re choosing not to react. That’s not easy.
Well, it’s not easy for me anyway.
Right on.
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All right, folks. I’ll talk to you tomorrow.
This transcript was lightly cleaned up with the help of AI to improve readability while preserving the original voice and intent of the recording.
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